Seniority

You know about seniority – someone
has been on the job longer than you; when
you’re growing up, your parents have the
final word. You get trained to look outside
of yourself for permission or approval. If
you moved forward without permission, it
was likely you’d be yelled at or punished
in some way.

You become an adult, and expect that it
should be different now. And in some
ways, it probably is. However, how much
of a residual of giving up your seniority do
you carry? And how do you get your
seniority back?

Off the top of your head, how much do
you look outside of yourself (0 to 100%)
for permission when you go to create
money? a relationship? your career? You
do this because you are sensitive to the
energy you took on in the past. You really
try to avoid triggering that old pain -
maybe you find reasons not to move
forward (procrastinate) or take an indirect
route (I need more education or time to
study).

Getting your seniority back is as simple
as releasing the old energy that gets
triggered when you move forward – not
over-riding or protecting the old pain. You
want to release it, so you can regain that
part of your creativity. Some energy tools
would be helpful, so you can do it for
yourself. You get that in our classes. At
least come in and get a reading or healing
to help get back on track.

November 2010